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3 ways to improve co-parenting communication

On Behalf of | Mar 8, 2021 | Family law

Divorce can lead to a great deal of confusion and uncertainty, especially if there are children and parenting concerns. As confusing as the process may seem, it can become downright contentious when emotions run high and communication between spouses is lacking.

To counteract the impact of the separation and improve the outcome, couples should work on improving their communication skills. Here are three ways to improve the lines of communication between divorcing spouses.

Leave the feelings out of it

Marriage is for emotions; divorce is for business. Separating couples should treat their divorce as a business arrangement and keep all communication professional. They should limit communication between each other to when it is necessary, such as regarding the kids.

Create and enforce boundaries

Boundaries are important for any relationship, especially couples who are transitioning to co-parents. Without clear rules to prevent miscommunication issues, parents often find themselves dealing with a lot of unnecessary drama and confusion that may impact their ability to protect and provide for their children. Keep the focus on matters that involve the children and parenting obligations or challenges.

Be respectful and flexible

Living in two different households means new routines, changes and adjustments for parents and children. Conflicts may crop up with parenting schedules that require flexibility and understanding from both parental parties. It also requires consideration for different parenting styles.

Divorcing couples can minimize arguments and co-parenting challenges with better communication. Though they may feel like expressing negative emotions or past issues, couples should resist the temptation and avoid contentious matters without the presence of legal counsel and never in the presence of their children.